Originally published: September 17, 2014 | Last updated: June 9, 2025
TL;DR: Every Last Will and Testament requires four critical appointments: an Executor to manage your estate, a Guardian for minor children, a Trustee to manage inheritance for minors, and alternate beneficiaries in case your primary beneficiaries predecease you. These four decisions are the most important choices you will make in your Will — and failing to make them means a court will make them for you.
Your Last Will and Testament is more than a description of how your estate will be distributed after you pass away.
Who Is an Executor and What Do They Do?
An Executor who some states call a Personal Representative must follow the directions which your Will contains.
Your Executor’s responsibilities include:
- You need to gather all your assets before creating an inventory list of them.
- Your Executor needs to settle all your debts before they can file your final tax returns.
- Your Will states how you want your assets to distribute between your beneficiaries.
- The probate court together with beneficiaries require you to submit all required reports.
- The probate court requires estate management for the process to move forward.
What Qualities Should an Executor Have?
Your Executor needs to possess both trustworthiness and organizational skills while being at an age which allows them to perform their duties after your death.
You should look for professional assistance when your family members and friends lack the essential qualities which you need.
For a complete guide on what an Executor does, read: Named Executor of a Will: Now What?
Why Is Naming a Guardian for Your Children So Important?

The process of selecting a guardian for your children becomes the most emotional task you will ever face.
The judge will look to your Last Will and Testament for guidance in granting guardianship, believing that you have carefully considered this person to be best positioned to take on this responsibility. Factors you should weigh include:
- Geography – You need to select a location which stays close to your children’s current school and their existing community environment.
- Lifestyle and values – You need to find someone who shares your beliefs about how your children should develop.
- Financial means – You need to have enough resources to handle the expenses which come with caring for additional children.
- Age and health – You need to maintain your ability to provide care for children throughout their entire development.
- Willingness – always discuss this with your chosen guardian first
The court will probably select your Will name for Will execution even though they might find someone else more suitable when you die.
Learn more: How to Choose a Guardian for Your Children and How Do You Name Guardians in Your Will?
What Does a Trustee for Minor Trusts Do?
Your children will not receive their inheritance because the law prevents them from inheriting directly when you die before they reach adulthood.
The Trustee holds authority to decide how trust funds should support children from their birth until they reach adulthood through educational expenses and medical care needs.
This is a key appointment. Your Trustee must be:
- Someone who has full honesty and handles money well
- Someone you trust to act in your children’s best interests
- Ideally not the same person as the Guardian (to provide checks and balances)
For more details on trusts, see: Testamentary Trusts – What Are They and How Are They Created?
Why Are Alternate Beneficiaries Essential?
Most people establish their primary beneficiary right away by choosing their spouse as their first option.
Your alternate plan may be an opportunity to:
- Consider charitable bequests to organizations you support
- Give specific items to named beneficiaries
- Distribute the estate to a wider range of individuals or organizations
Most individuals select their primary beneficiary without hesitation but they must dedicate their full attention to developing their backup beneficiary selection.
What Happens Without a Will?
The primary function of a Will surpasses its role of showing how your property should be divided among your heirs.
| Decision | With a Will | Without a Will |
|---|---|---|
| Executor | Person you chose and trust | Court-appointed stranger |
| Guardians | Person you selected based on values | Judge decides with limited knowledge |
| Trustee | Trusted person managing children’s funds | Court-appointed, no guidance on spending |
| Asset distribution | Your wishes followed exactly | State intestate laws decide – may not match your wishes |
The laws which states use to distribute property without a will seem to ignore any personal plans you made during your life.
How Do I Get Started?
The process of creating a Will should take about 20-30 minutes while the cost remains lower than what most people expect.
Related reading:
- How to Write a Will: Your 10-Step Guide
- Why You Need a Will
- 5 Reasons Not to Procrastinate on Making a Will
- Estate Planning for New Parents
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